We have to acknowledge the fact that no matter how serious mistakes people make, the first response to criticism is to justify themselves. Praise to the human soul, like sunshine, without it, we cannot grow and blossom. But most of us, we avoid the criticism of others, but we don't give our praise to others. We can use praise instead of criticism, the mistakes of others, perhaps will slowly disappear, because everyone wants to be appreciated and identity, a person's abilities will shrink in the criticism, and under the encouragement.
我们必须承认，无论人们犯了多么严重的错误，对批评的第一反应就是为自己辩解。赞美人类的灵魂，就像阳光，没有它，我们就不能生长和开花。但我们大多数人都避免批评别人，但我们不表扬别人。我们可以用表扬代替批评，别人的错误，也许会慢慢消失，因为每个人都想被欣赏和认同，一个人的能力会在批评和鼓励下萎缩。