it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.a sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.it's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don't go for looks; they can deceive. don't go for wealth, even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.always put yourself in the other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
爱一个人却得不到回报是痛苦的。但更痛苦的是爱一个人却没有勇气让他知道你的感受，人生中最可悲的事就是遇到一个对你来说很重要的人，却最终发现那不是命中注定的，你只能放手。最好的朋友是那种你可以坐在门廊的秋千上，一言不发，然后走开，感觉这是你有过的最好的一次谈话。的确，我们不知道我们得到了什么，直到失去了它，但也确实，我们不知道我们失去了什么，直到它到来爱上一个人需要一分钟，喜欢一个人需要一小时，爱上一个人需要一天，但是忘记一个人需要一辈子的时间。不要追求外表，他们会欺骗你的。不要追求财富，即使财富会消失。找一个能让你微笑的人，因为只要一个微笑，黑暗的一天就会变得明亮。做你想做的梦；去你想去的地方；做你想成为的人，因为你只有一次生命和一次机会去做你想做的事。永远要设身处地地为别人着想。如果你觉得它伤害了你，它可能也伤害了这个人。一句粗心的话可能会引发冲突；一句残酷的话可能会毁了一辈子；一句及时的话可能会减轻压力；一句充满爱的话可能会治愈和祝福。最幸福的人不一定拥有最好的一切，他们只是充分利用了他们所拥有的一切。爱以微笑开始，以亲吻成长，以眼泪结束。当你出生的时候，你在哭，你周围的人都在笑。好好生活吧，这样当你死的时候，你是唯一一个微笑的人，你周围的人都在哭泣。