There is an old Chinese saying: Top students come from strict teachers. Perhaps affected by this saying for a long time, we believe it right. However, as time flies, lots of things have changed. Therefore, I am eager to discuss what relation is the best between teachers and students.
中国有句古话：优秀的学生来自严格的老师。也许受这句话影响很长一段时间，我们相信它是对的。然而，随着时间的流逝，很多事情都发生了变化。因此，我很想讨论一下师生之间的最佳关系。
A teacher can treat a student in two ways .One is strict, and the other is friendly. Most teachers prefer the first way.
老师可以用两种方式对待学生，一种是严格的，另一种是友好的。大多数老师更喜欢第一种方法。
To start with, we certainly have to admit that strictness is very effective, especially to the naughty pupils. As pupils we aren't able to control ourselves well or fix our attention on one thing for a long time. We do most things because they are interesting or we feel like doing. We are always looking out of the window in class. Sometimes, we get to play games and forget our homework. On this occasion, strictness is a must. It not only forces us to do the right thing, but also helps us develop a good learning habit, which is of great importance during our whole life .In other words, it is the first step to success.
首先，我们必须承认严格是非常有效的，特别是对淘气的学生。作为小学生，我们很长一段时间都不能很好地控制自己或集中注意力在一件事上。我们做大多数事情是因为它们很有趣或者我们想做。我们上课时总是往窗外看。有时候，我们会玩游戏，忘了做作业。在这种情况下，严格是必须的。它不仅迫使我们做正确的事情，而且帮助我们养成良好的学习习惯，这在我们的一生中是非常重要的，换句话说，它是成功的第一步。
Still, everything has two sides. Its weak points are very obvious. You see, there're top students in a class, where average students make up the majority. Then teachers' orders or suggestions are for the majority, not for top students. However, top students always have their own study plans and prefer special homework, so orders usually won't take great effect on them. Maybe you have thought out that teachers can give orders only to the majority and set some freedom to top students. However, it's impossible .For a whole class, teachers couldn't give order to part of the class, for the majority would question why they needn't do such work, but we need? It would be probable that they think teachers treat them not equally, and will not obey teachers' orders any more. This is a difficulty for teachers.
尽管如此，一切都有两面性。它的弱点非常明显。你看，在一个班里有很多优秀的学生，其中普通学生占大多数。那么，教师的命令或建议是为大多数人，而不是为优等生。然而，优秀的学生总是有自己的学习计划，喜欢特殊的家庭作业，所以订单通常不会对他们产生很大的影响。也许你已经想好了，老师只能给大多数人下命令，给优秀学生一些自由。然而，这是不可能的。对于整个班级来说，老师们不能给部分班级下达命令，因为大多数人会质疑为什么他们不需要做这样的工作，但是我们需要？他们很可能认为老师对待他们不平等，不再服从老师的命令。这对教师来说是一个困难。
It also has another disadvantage——the communication problem .Since teachers are strict, we never tell teachers our personal affairs or secrets. Mostly we just tell them to our friends, but as students too, they couldn't help to solve our problem, such as puppy love, communication problems or study problems .Not being solved completely, they always disturb us, influencing our daily life and study. I'm sure that you think that making friends with teachers can solve the problem, and you are eager to do so as well. But if we do so, new problems will come out .You see, an adult couldn't control himself well at times, let alone us students. However if teachers are our friends, I doubt whether their orders will take effect any more .You see, have we ever treated our friends' orders as orders? We think they're only jokes. This is another difficulty for teachers.
它还有另一个缺点，即沟通问题。由于教师很严格，我们从不告诉教师我们的私事或秘密。大多数情况下，我们只是告诉朋友，但作为学生，他们也无法帮助我们解决问题，比如早恋、沟通问题或学习问题。如果不能完全解决，他们总是会打扰我们，影响我们的日常生活和学习。我确信你认为和老师交朋友能解决问题，而且你也很想这样做。但如果我们这样做，就会出现新的问题。你看，一个成年人有时不能很好地控制自己，更不用说我们这些学生了。但是，如果老师是我们的朋友，我怀疑他们的命令是否会再生效。你看，我们有没有把我们的朋友的命令当作命令？我们认为它们只是笑话。这对老师来说是另一个困难。
Additionally, our parents have the same problem. Yes, we need to be friends, but not complete friends. We need to keep a certain distance, making us communicate well and willing to take your orders. I remember a story.
此外，我们的父母也有同样的问题。是的，我们需要成为朋友，但不是完全的朋友。我们需要保持一定的距离，使我们沟通良好，愿意接受您的命令。我记得一个故事。
One day, a lady had her rest room decorated. And a skilled worker was bricking up the wall. Seeing large cracks between the bricks, she questioned why. The worker told her after this summer, the bricks would become bigger, and those cracks would disappear.
有一天，一位女士装修了她的休息室。一个熟练的工人正在砌墙。看到砖块之间有大裂缝，她问为什么。工人告诉她，今年夏天过后，砖块会变大，裂缝会消失。
That is not only decoration, but also communication. The principle is the same.
这不仅是装饰，也是沟通。原则是一样的